Hate increase is basically a crap stat on soldier items to help them tank, but without increase in dps - you're a carny ffs, never trade dps for +hate
I aim for full TT as the main set and BD (actually it's anything I can grab with high armor/str/protection - I will wear

) for more tanky duties, but this will be a looong way.
I seem to loose aggro very fast if I stop hitting and I have to use Goad when I want to compete with full T3 tanks when they're racing. I helped to tank a few easier T3 bosses and it was just friggin fun! I know I'm there to help, not to be a star (though the reactions are nice when they see you actually tank some heavy hits) so it's fine.